I want to ask you a question today. What does it mean to not fail? Most people when asked this question reply by saying, “Not failing, is succeeding.” Just like this picture above, failure and success have become antonyms. This is not the case. I have found that the two words have a path that is very close together. Although the main concept of that is somewhat true, I would like to give you a different aspect on what it means to not fail and that is, failing. Yes it sounds a bit redundant but if you are not failing, you must be failing. Let me explain this idea for a little bit. 

Our life is a journey.  A long story that we walk through and that we learn as we go along and we take risks. We set out to be the best person we can be. The moment that we stop taking risks and stepping out in areas that have potential of failure, we stop growing and miss out on what could have been. The only way for us to reach where we want to go is by failing and learning from the mistakes we made. Each time we fail, it is one step closer to our success. Without failure, there is not success. 

I say that as an encouragement to where you are. Never be afraid to fail. Inversely, if you are in a place where you haven’t failed recently and have not put yourself in a position to fail, I would say that you haven’t stepped out of the comfort zone you are in and need to do so soon! We need to learn that failure is as much a part of our lives as death and taxes; it will never go away and much greater than death and taxes, we can learn and grow in a huge way if we learn to master what failure is. 

To succeed, you will fail. Embrace that concept and learn to be excited when failure comes next time around. 

Dreams are what drive us. They keep a motivation for us. They help us think about what’s next. But dreams will always stay dreams unless we take small steps to achieve them. Dreams are meant to keep your passion going, but daily decisions are what get you to your dreams. 

Today, you will be met with 100’s of decisions and choices to make. We often forget how important each of these decisions we make are. Every choice we make will steer us towards our dreams or away. Be guided by God and choose wisely. 

Your God given dreams will guide your path but your daily decisions will get you there. 

What decisions do you need to make for your dreams today? What can I pray with you about to help you along your path?

Everyone has dreams. Some dreams are huge and take years to develop and grow. Other dreams are small and will happen quickly. But what about when reality doesn’t match the dream? 

I have seen many people question even the existence of God because of this matter. Why would God give you a passion and a dream but not let it happen? Here is what I have found to be true:

- Every dream has a time of sowing and a time or reaping. We can NEVER expect a dream to happen if we don’t know that it needs a time to grow inside of us before it is let out. And once it is let out, we must realize that it will take time for people around us to catch it and eventually for the public to understand it. 

- The dream usually happens suddenly. This is why it is so important that we don’t give up. You never know when the right moment will come along and suddenly, everything changes.  If you keep moving and keep trying new ways of developing your dream, you will eventually get to the dream that you have. If you quit, you will never get to the dream you have. 

- When it feels like reality doesn’t match the dream, learn to look into your life and change what needs to be changed. Look into your worship team, organization, church and change what needs to be changed. Ask mentors, leaders, friends and family around you what they think you need to change, but never give up on the purpose you feel you are set out to accomplish. 

Harvest it, grow it, wait for it and change what you can. Never give up on the purpose in your heart. When reality doesn’t match the dream, keep dreaming and don’t lose hope. 

I wrote a blog a couple of days ago about making good choices. This is a follow up to that entry on how we can train ourselves to make good choices:

1) Learn your emotions and how to control them.  

Emotions can be a killer and we all have them. Fear, insecurity and anger are just a few that commonly effect our decisions. Learn what each of those emotions feels like and control it. When it rises up, wait until it passes to make your decision. 

2) Trust the advice of mentors.

         First, make sure you have mentors and people in your life that speak into you. If you are stuck on a decision that seems incredibly hard to make, talk to them and get their advice. Most likely, they will be able to give you better advice than what you can give yourself because they aren’t swayed by the circumstances within the decision you need to make. They are on the outside looking in and can give objective help.

3) Don’t make rash decisions.

        Have you ever heard the expression, “Don’t make decisions when you are tired or hungry?” This is SO true. We want to be in a normal. calm state of mind when we make our choice. If we aren’t, chances are we are going to be swayed to make a rash decision. 

4) Stick it through.

        When is it time to call it quits and when is the time to keep going? It’s always a hard thing to decide. John Maxwell wrote a blog recently that implored us to not change our lives when we are in a difficult time but only when things are successful. When we uproot and change our situations within a difficult season, we can’t fully see all that is really happening because we are engulfed by life’s circumstances. We must stick it through until we have returned to the mountain top before we make the decision to move on in life. 

5) Look to God’s Word.

         Reading scripture will bring us to Truth. You will be shocked at how applicable God’s Word is to today’s situation. Getting lost in studying this Word will shape our character to make good decisions naturally. 

Every small decision you make will add to what your life becomes. We must remember this with every choice we make. 

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This last weekend, we had the privilege of getting to minister in Chicago. As we were walking down the streets of Michigan Ave near the John Hancock building, a son got out of a car and I heard the Mom tell him some simple advice in three words, “Make good choices.”

Such power in such a simple statement. Too often, we forget how powerful our choices are; where we move to, our job, our friends, where we spend our money, where we attend church are all relatively small decisions in the moment, but looking at the big picture these decisions shape us into who we are and mold our lives. 

If we make good choices, what’s to come? I would say a great family, happiness, financial prosperity all would follow. If we make bad choices, the opposite would ensue. 

I like to think of how we relate this to God. How many times do we make terrible choices, then pray for God to make everything great again? Sometimes I think God might be looking at us saying, “What do you think I gave you a brain for? Use it!” But what do we like to do? Make a giant mess then ask for God to bail us out. We have to break out of this.

Ahh…. wouldn’t life be great if every we choice we made was the right choice? I know, I know, much easier said then done. But, if we consume ourselves with the Word of God, it becomes much easier to make great decisions.

Here is my challenge to everyone reading this; Go one day thinking about everything you do before you do it and ask yourself, “Does this line up with God’s word?” From what you say, to creativity, to ministry, to work, it all falls into place when we line up with God’s Word. 

What do you think? How have your recent choices affected you? What changes have you made to make right decisions?

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Have Christians Killed the Church?

            I’ve been thinking a lot on this topic lately. There is so much creativity that flows from people. Being a Christian, how much more creativity and ideas should we have being that we are connected to God? Yet, reality is we look to the world for trends, fashion, design, music, etc and then copy it. Why is that? Why aren’t we as believers setting the standard for others to follow? I believe it is due to the church as a whole. Think about it. We only allow certain songs to be played, certain graphics to be displayed, certain messages to be preached and our justification is that we don’t want to offend anyone or lose anyone.

            The secular world does not have this standard. They create something and if people like it, great; if they don’t, it fails, but the song, idea, blog, etc is put out there for everyone to digest. I don’t know how many times I have thought to myself “Is this congregational?” when picking out songs or looking to make a decision for a service or church. How many great ideas have I thrown away because I was afraid of it “Not going over well” or “it doesn’t fit our style.”

            Let’s face it, we as a church have created the culture that we as a church think is cheesy and dislike so much. SO…. What do we do? Take risks. Break the mold. Be different. Whenever you are looking at making decisions for your set, design, etc, and are confronted with the thought “We have never done this before,” do it! Allow the creativity to flow from inside as never let what people think or may say about it effect you.

            By doing this, I believe we can break a spirit of religion that has so heavily influenced the church and see innovation from believers like we have never seen.  

What do you think? Has the spirit of religion ruined the creativity in believers? What needs to change to become the leaders of innovation?

// Our world and society has set us up to compare our lives to each other. We compare families, houses, cars, jobs, success; the list goes on. Comparing yourself to other people will lead you into a spot that is lonely and where you feel like you are unsuccessful when our success as Christians isn’t based on things of this world but how we line up with the Word of God. Here’s what Paul said, “Oh, don’t worry: we wouldn’t dare say that we are as wonderful as these other men who tell you how important they are! But they are only comparing themselves with each other, using themselves as the standard of measurement. How ignorant!” 1 Cor 2:10.

// Today, don’t compare yourself to other people, instead, see how you line up to the Word of God and change yourself to be more like it. If we strive to be more like God, all the other issues of the issues seems to dissolve and our lives are then compared to the creator of the world, not to the world itself.